Sometimes I catch you
Sometimes you get away
Sometimes I read you
Other times I'm like where are you on the page?
Sometimes I feel like we will be together forever
But you're so complicated
My heart knows better
Why is everything with you so complicated?
Sometimes you get away
Sometimes I read you
Other times I'm like where are you on the page?
Sometimes I feel like we will be together forever
But you're so complicated
My heart knows better
Why is everything with you so complicated?
love the song, hate the message. weak. ling. newsflash...he's not complicated, YOU are. if you still feel like you cant figure him out, then sweety, move on. relationships are not meant to be "figured out" romantic or plutonic. they should just be. it is one lesson i think i'm finally getting...take my situation into account. ive had the above scenario play out for a couple of years now with the same guy. finally, i've learned to let go of my expectations, stop questioning what we are, and accept the friendship for what it is.
i expect very little from all my friends, we all do. a call once in a while, a text here and there. so why is it that we hold love interests to do the impossible then? keep up with all areas of our lives, text or call once a day... impossible. if you're not his equal love interest, it's not gonna happen. therefore, i've let him drift into the "distant, but good friend" category and now my life is back in line. i dont worry about complications with him or any other guy anymore, because my wires are not crossed. im not waiting on a phone call or text for confirmation that he likes me...i know he does, but i know how he does too. like any. other. friend.
confidence ladies, put people in the category in which they belong in your life and suddenly things wont be so complicated anymore. its like spring cleaning for your MIND. declutter that bitch, we all know she has a tendency to get crazy otherwise. so toss out the old friends way in the back you havent utilized - you know the fashion rule, if you havent worn it in 6 months its OUT- put the friends you know you cant count on in the "know you cant count on them, but still great for a night out" category etc, etc. i think theres something to be appreciated about most, if not all, the people we choose to make friends with.
did i really just make an analogy of organizing friends in your mind the way you would clothes and items in a closet? aaah. i've OD'd on organizing our beauty closet. does someone need to become an organizational guru and love counselor? bright future ahead...
i expect very little from all my friends, we all do. a call once in a while, a text here and there. so why is it that we hold love interests to do the impossible then? keep up with all areas of our lives, text or call once a day... impossible. if you're not his equal love interest, it's not gonna happen. therefore, i've let him drift into the "distant, but good friend" category and now my life is back in line. i dont worry about complications with him or any other guy anymore, because my wires are not crossed. im not waiting on a phone call or text for confirmation that he likes me...i know he does, but i know how he does too. like any. other. friend.
confidence ladies, put people in the category in which they belong in your life and suddenly things wont be so complicated anymore. its like spring cleaning for your MIND. declutter that bitch, we all know she has a tendency to get crazy otherwise. so toss out the old friends way in the back you havent utilized - you know the fashion rule, if you havent worn it in 6 months its OUT- put the friends you know you cant count on in the "know you cant count on them, but still great for a night out" category etc, etc. i think theres something to be appreciated about most, if not all, the people we choose to make friends with.
did i really just make an analogy of organizing friends in your mind the way you would clothes and items in a closet? aaah. i've OD'd on organizing our beauty closet. does someone need to become an organizational guru and love counselor? bright future ahead...
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