the side effects of love...

"Am I lonely?  Yes.  Am I upset?  Yes.  Am I confused?  Yes.  Do I have my days when I've thrown a little pity party for myself?  Absolutely.... I don't feel like a victim [though]....you get one day of being a victim - and thats it.  Then we take responsibility for our own input.  To live in a victim place is pointing a finger at someone else, as if you have no control.  Relationships are two people; everyone is accountable.  A lot goes into a relationship coming together, and a lot goes into a relationship falling apart."  -Jennifer Aniston

amen.